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Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Self-Rescuing Princess of the Week: Oprah

What do you think about when you think of Oprah? If you're like most of my friends, you probably have some rather negative or neutral thoughts about Oprah and her media empire. And probably not completely unjustified.

But maybe you'll indulge me for a short list of the things I love best about Oprah.

She tackled the really tough issues. She was one of the first to bring the issues of sexual abuse, AIDS, racism, and domestic abuse, among many others. Think back to the the 1980s and early 1990s. As a country, we weren't really talking much about AIDS, aside from the very vocal fringe groups within the gay community. But Oprah was. And she was one of the first public figures to start combating the rampant misinformation.

She shared her experiences with childhood sexual abuse so that others would have the courage to seek the help they needed. And recently she even tackled the issue around male abuse victims, helping to give many men the strength to admit their shame and start the healing process.

In my mind, this is part and parcel with her overarching trait: an unrelenting focus on education. Her school in Africa, her scholarships to black colleges, her dedication to providing books for school children, and even her work with the (in my opinion misguided) Waiting for Superman group, all point to her unwavering dedication to education.

She used her strength, her power, her gifts to create a brand that at its core was designed to empower and educate the widest audience possible. Sure, she also sold lipsticks and talked about her favorite shoes, but that's just part of the whole package. Even the smartest, most dedicated, most powerful people have moments of whimsy. Just because her idea of whimsy doesn't match mine doesn't mean the rest of her message is undermined.

There was a time in my previous career in the magazine business where I dreamed of moving to New York and working for O magazine. Any magazine that could appeal to the fashionistas AND the biblioholics must be a good magazine. Sure, O's got 30 pages of consumerist photo-shoots of $400 purses and stilettos, but it also has reviews for 30+ books in each issue. Think about that for a minute. Each month, over a million women are getting a subscription to a magazine that talks about books as though reading was something as ordinary as picking out a new nail color. Think about other mainstream women's magazines. Do they have ANY book reviews?

Sure, there were shows I didn't watch. Lots of them, in fact. But that's to be expected, really. Think about the sheer number of shows she put on. They can't all be about my personal favorite issues. It's not a show just for me. It's for everyone. And as such, there will be stories that appeal to them more than others.

I have to admit that what little I've watched on the OWN channel hasn't inspired me in the way that the Oprah show has. I'll keep checking it out, of course. I guess I'll have to turn to the magazine for inspiration, and wait to see what happens now.

So, what do you think now that Ms O is leaving the afternoon time slot? What will come next?

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

SRPS Highlights

Just a quick sampling of the great media out there by some of my favorite Self-Rescuing Princesses, or topics that seem like something SRPS-related:

If you didn't catch last week's interview with Betty White on Tavis Smiley, I highly recommend it. What an amazing woman. So funny. So brave. So strong. I love hearing about how she got involved in acting, and telling stories about working on the Mary Tyler Moore Show and Golden Girls. She was there to plug her new book, which I just may have to read.

The best part: when she makes Tavis Smiley crack up at the end. Pure comedy genius.



I'm reading Rosanne Barr's article in the New York Magazine about her thoughts about being asking to comment on Charlie Sheen's recent public troubles. I have always admired Rosanne. I proudly stand behind my love of her sitcom as well as her standup. It takes serious ovaries to do what she's done. And without her, would we have Ellen or other women comedians? In the article, she talks about the sexism and classism she had to confront in Hollywood while making her ground-breaking show.

Best line: “Cry all you want to, but you figure out a way to put my name on the show I created, or kiss my ass good-bye.” Be sure to read it with your sarcasm filter on. Biting, political, feminist comedy is best done with a healthy dose of sarcasm.


It looks like Bridemaids is getting some good reviews and some mixed reviews. My friends who have seen it are all raving. I hope to see it soon. Maybe this weekend, if the world doesn't come to an end. If I do see it, I'll certainly post a review.


And, finally, with all the fuss over the J.Crew ad with a young boy with toenails painted pink, this article from Smithsonian Magazine, from April, about the history of gender-ized baby colors is still rather timely. Basically, it's a preview of a book coming out later this year by historian Jo B. Paoletti.

Takeaway line: “There is a whole community out there of parents and kids who are struggling with ‘My son really doesn’t want to wear boy clothes, prefers to wear girl clothes.’ ” She hopes one audience for her book will be people who study gender clinically. The fashion world may have divided children into pink and blue, but in the world of real individuals, not all is black and white.

Friday, May 13, 2011

The Happy Birthday Monster

Today was International Monster's Day. It was also my sister's birthday. So, I thought it would be fun to make a monster in her honor. The idea was to make a monster and photograph it having tea and cakes. But that's not how we play it at our house. My monsters don't drink tea. They drink tequila. And although I like cake, we didn't have any, so I went with all-natural jelly beans.



When I asked my sister what she wanted me to do for her monster, she said, "hippy dippy." So that's where I started.  Sadly, I got too busy with other stuff this week (stupid Spanish test!) and only got it half finished. Really, this was intended to be a reversible monster, and I have grand plans for what the other side will be like. But I thought I'd share it with you all anyway. I'll post again when I get it fully finished.

I started by gathering the items I thought might work well.



I found this great fabric at one of my thrift store stops. It's not very big. I think it was originally a child's pillow case. But it's big enough for the monster!



I included eyes made from some crazy buttons I leftover from another project a while ago: orange with pink polka dots.



And some beaded earrings that came in a grab bag of beads.



And these adorable mylar butterflies from the confetti a friend sent in a birthday card a couple of years ago.



The arms are made from Mardi Gras beads.


The legs are the loops from the bathrobe that got turned into the Cthulhu blanket, combined with some jingle bells.



The hair is from an old pompon that came from the Grease Sing-A-Long I went to with a dear friend a couple of years ago.



All in all, I'm happy with how this part of the monster turned out. I might add a few more knick-knacks and doodads in the next week or so, but nothing big. But for now, I'm calling her done!

Happy Birthday Rebecca! I love you!

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

The Power of the Tiara - I love surprises!

I woke up with a terrible headache. It's the same dumb headache that was bothering me a couple of weeks ago. I'm still trying to figure out what causes it. I think I've decided that it's really more a combination of factors, some of which are out of my control. Boo.

So, I spent the morning attacking the headache from all angles: allergy medicine, decongestant, caffeine, water, rest, and mediation. At one point, I even decided to put on my tiara, to show this headache I'm still the head princess, even when I'm feeling like a frog.

With the tiara on, I decided to spend some quality time in my sewing room, cleaning up and planning my next couple of projects. That's when I remembered the sewing grab bag I'd picked up yesterday evening.

I was cruising around one of my regular thrift stores yesterday, and saw a bag of goodies that I couldn't pass us. It was sealed up tight, so I couldn't quite tell what all was in there. But since it was only about $1, I decided to take a chance. If nothing else, I know I can use some of the thread and that Altoids tin.


Oh, bonus! The Altoids tin is filled with pins! I actually need more pins. Mine are getting chewed up by my sewing machine and I sometimes have to skimp on how many I use on some of my bigger projects!


A jar full of buttons. Didn't everyone's grandmother have a couple of these? I know mine did. My Granny kept a bunch of different jars filled with odds and ends. I have to admit, when I opened this jar, I sniff the air inside. It smelled just like my Granny's house.


A little bag of miscellaneous buttons and doodads. I'm pretty sure that green flower is going to get used on my current monster project. I'm curious to know if anyone knows what that metal clip thing at the top might be. It looks like a miniature curling iron. Maybe it's a ribbon curler?


Green seed beads, and a thread crochet hook. I can use those, I'm sure. And bobbins! I was thinking about buying some new bobbins, since all the bobbins I have are sorta committed to different colors. I know I'm not the only person who tries to use similar colored thread on each bobbin right?


Wooden spools are so cool. We used them as blocks at my Granny's house.


Other older spools of thread. Some of these brands look very familiar to when my mom would sew clothes for me. Or maybe I remember them from my Meemaw's sewing area.


So, that was a pretty good score, don't you think?

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Secret Project Revealed - Cthulhu Blanket!

Last week, I got it in my head to buy a pretty little bobble for my friend Cat, who hasn't been feeling well lately. I went to etsy and looked up different cute Cthulhu items, when I saw a listing for a Cthulhu quilt. Without meaning to disparage that quilter's efforts, I thought to myself, "I could do something better than that!" So, I decided that I needed to.

Cthulhu blanket!


I pulled out my green fabric and thought about what else I needed. I stopped by Goodwill to look for some kind of fuzzy blanket for the backing. At first, I found a nice red fleece blanket, but then I decided to take a look at the bathrobes, just in case there was something there that would be even better.

What I found was beyond my best wishes! There was a perfect bathrobe: pink, fuzzy, and just the right size.

Fits perfectly! Sorta.

The back panel is big enough!
I don't know what size this robe was, but the back panel alone was big enough for what I had in mind. So I set myself to ripping out the seams and seeing what I could make of it.

See how soft and fuzzy?
Once I'd pulled out the back panel, I laid it out to see what kind of design I could make work.

Mr. Bob, for scale.
I had a lot of fabric to work with, but coming up with the layout still took a bit of drafting. And several paper bags for the pattern.

Homemade pattern.
I decided to turn the robe panel upside down and make the smaller end the bottom of the blanket. Then I taped together several sheets of brown paper and sketched the basic pattern on the paper.

The rough idea.
And don't forget the wings:

It's not Cthulhu without wings.
Cut and ready to go.
Measure twice, cut once, right? Especially when you only have a finite amount of the favorite fabric!

This is why I buy colorful sheets when I find them.
Fortunately, I had a larger piece of green sheet fabric!

Ready to go.
And don't forget the tentacles!

Tentacles!


I cut on section of the tentacles out of the same green as the Cthulhu front, but the back section out of a slightly lighter shade of green.

Wings!
And the fronts of the wings.

Finished wing.
I sewed the wings together, and inserted a panel of bright pink satin on the fronts. I did the first wing the hard way, by cutting out the green center and trying to sew them together. HARD! I did the second wing the easier way, by pinning the pink to the back of the green, sewing them together and THEN cutting out the green center. I intentionally left the green unfinished, so it will fray slightly over time and give the wings a more ragged look.

Finished front panel.
I sewed the tentacles together and turned them right-side-out. I then sewed them to the green Cthulhu front panel. I also sewed a pair of eyes made from some super soft black scrap fabric I had leftover from a Cat Woman costume I made ages ago.

Finished back panel.
I sewed the completed wings directly to the back of the pink panel. I then pinned the wings back, and the tentacles out of the way, and sewed the two big panels together.

And then, voilá! Done!

All done!
Isn't this the coolest thing ever?

Wrapped up pretty.
All wrapped up and ready to go!

Friday, May 6, 2011

Self-Rescuing Princess of the Week: Evie Truxaw

I've written about my friend-farmers over at Tierra Vegetables a couple of times on my other blog. I adore those people and their produce. I count so many of the people there as my friends. I feel very fortunate to have developed such a great relationship with the people who grow my food.

Evie is a regular at the farm stand. She and her husband Wayne, and his sister Lee, are the heart of Tierra, along with so many others who work to make sure we can get the freshest, most wonderful vegetables, fruits, beans, cornmeal, spices, chilis, peppers and flowers each week. Evie is there at the front of the farm stand with a smile and a hug for everyone who comes in. She is the kindest, smartest, funniest, most open person you would ever care to meet. She is a rock star.

And she is also a cancer survivor. Back in early winter of 2009, she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. After surgery, several rounds of chemotherapy, and an extended recovery, she is doing great. She's back at the farm stand full time, smiling, hugging and chatting with everyone. Her hair has grown back in a fun post-cancer 'fro.

And tomorrow morning she will run 6 miles as part of the Human Race to raise funds for the Airport Club's Cancer Wellness Program -- a program that she herself participated in when she was sick. They provide nutrition, exercise, and social programs for cancer patients, free of charge. Before this week, I had never heard of this program. Now I'm sold on its importance to my community. Especially because it was there to help Evie in her time of need.

Most awesomely, she's calling her run the F*** Cancer run. Well, when I heard that, I had to join her, right? I mean, if she can go through all that chemo and fight her way back to health, the very least I can do is run 6 miles with her (or, more likely, behind her as she leaves me in the dust).

Evie, you are an amazing woman, and I'm happy to be able to count you among my self-rescuing princess friends. Rock on, sister!



PS. If you want to donate to help the Cancer Wellness Program, you can do so at Evie's fund-raising page, or mine.